Google search: How to get a life?

"You were thinking it's a small thing that happened, the world ended when it happened to me." I carry those lyrics so heavy in my heart and I'm about to explain why that relates to  todays post. I'm not a loud girl, I'm also not a very popular one. But I'm ALSO not lonely - but I can't help feeling like I am. I have my friends and I love them but we are polar opposites. I mean me and my bestfriend have all the same interests, hobbies, and opinions, but she is loud and she is popular and I can't help but feeling left behind. When her and my other friends are getting invited out on weekends, doing extra-curricular, getting full phones - I'm left behind in bed with an empty phone and no plans. I always used to tell myself it wasn't me since me and them are the same but I think my own company is convincing me I am the problem. And I hate it so much. I think with this I'm kind of just seeking advice or help. How do I get a life? How do I get those invites and how do I be happy? I love my bed but I still have the absence of a real person because I'm drowning and I know others out there are too. So hey, let's try get lives together.